Not talking about Zinsky, just in general.  

Yes there are also some around me who basically nag and complain just about everything. And it is always someone's else's fault. Be it economy, weather, school, and... and they are always in misery (mentally).  

As my mentor Dr. Dyer said, there are two ways to look at the world, one is like an eagle observe everything from high up and do what the right thing is, or live like ducks  keep quacking and complaining with shit all over around them walking over the shit and keep going quack quack quack...  

The everyday life of both. 

Bardia and Shahin are like my brothers.  It is almost like we have known each other since childhood.  Different views about many things, but fundementally aligned and have a lot in common. Our gatherings are full of laughter and we enjoy each other's company.  Will never miss an opportunity to hang out with them.  Gorbi too... he is just a bit too far north. 

Kazem, you too I was at your neck of the woods earlier this week in Buffallo. Kind of in and out trip.  Next time I stay an extra day and will come to Rochester. Had a great time with you in Brazil. We met in person there, but again we clicked so well that it looked like we have known one another since childhood. 

غضنفر میره دکتر میگه دکتر جان من هر روز سر ساعت ۷ صبح تمام شکمم حسابی خالی میشه.

دکتره میگه این که خیلی خوبه واسه چی اومدی دکتر؟

میگه اخه دکتر من ساعت ۸ صبح تازه از خواب بیدار میشم.

Here's a look at the five most-costly states for single workers, based on how much money they'd need each year to get by.

1. Hawaii: $112,411
2. Massachusetts: $87,909
3. California: $80,013
4. New York: $73,226
5. Alaska: $71,570

Hawaii ranking first is not surprising, as the cost of living there is typically among the highest in the country. Because Hawaii is an isolated chain of islands, most shipping is done by sea rather than by truck or rail, which increases the cost of consumer goods. Land for real estate is also limited, which has driven up home prices.

Similarly, Massachusetts, California and New York require relatively high living wages, largely due to the fact that Boston, Los Angeles and New York City have some of the highest housing costs in the country.

Looking at the results as a whole, single workers' median income of $57,200 only covers the living wage in 30 states.

Single people may have to make sacrifices to get by

Although the study uses the 50/30/20 budget as a guideline for determining living wage, it isn't always a realistic measure of what people can afford, primarily because of ever-rising housing costs.

That usually means some sort of compromise is needed to make ends meet, whether that's cutting back on retirement contributions or eliminating other costs, like owning a car. In the case of large, expensive cities, getting a roommate is sometimes the only way a single person can cover their expenses.

While couples can usually find some cost savings by splitting mortgage or rent costs, there is no such discount for single people, which is why they typically spend thousands more on housing each year, compared with what married or people pay.

Location also plays a role. Individuals who earn around $57,200 can live comfortably in more rural states in the South and Midwest, where living costs are much lower.

Again, a lot of that has to do with housing costs. Median home prices in the South and Midwest are $311,800 and  $366,600, respectively, much less than the overall U.S. median of $410,200, according to National Association of Realtors data.

Here's a look at the cost of living in each state, in alphabetical order.

Alabama

Alaska

Arizona

Arkansas

California

Colorado

Connecticut

Delaware

Florida

Georgia

Hawaii

Idaho

Illinois

Indiana

Iowa

Kansas

Kentucky

Louisiana

Maine

Maryland

Massachusetts

Michigan

Minnesota

Mississippi

Missouri

Montana

Nebraska

Nevada

New Hampshire

New Jersey

New Mexico

New York

North Carolina

North Dakota

Ohio

Oklahoma

Oregon

Pennsylvania

Rhode Island

South Carolina

South Dakota

Tennessee

Texas

Utah

Vermont

Virginia

Washington

West Virginia

Wisconsin

Wyoming